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6 Types of a Verbally Abusive Relationship People Don’t Realize Are Toxic ~ Sherrie Hurd.

6 Types of a Verbally Abusive Relationship People Don’t Realize Are Toxic.

By Sherrie Hurd.

Posted June 29, 2019 by Edward Morgan

 
 
 



There are so many forms of abuse, and the verbally abusive relationship is one of the most damaging situations. Words truly hurt.

Sometimes, I sit around and think about negative words from the past, but I try not to dwell too long there. It can be even more damaging to present situations, good or bad. I was in a verbally abusive relationship, among other things, and it almost killed me.
Here’s the thing, there were times that I tried to convince myself that I was the problem, and this is the largest contributor to my degrading health. Instead of being strong and getting away from a bad situation, I crumbled. I don’t want this to happen to anyone.

Recognize the toxicity

It’s sometimes hard to see the abuse from the inside. But if we take a step back and examine the big picture, we will see these negative and hurtful words as extremely abusive. If you’re in this situation, I know you need a little help.
So, let me explain a few verbally abusive type relationships that you may not recognize. I just want to give you a heads up, so you can avoid much of the damage that I endured.

1. Manipulative relationships

One of the first signs of a verbally abusive and toxic relationship is manipulation. This type of abuse can come in either actions or words, depending on the particular issue in the relationship. For instance, threats to leave a person, if they do not do as they are told, is definitely a manipulative move.
Control is a form of manipulation and control can easily be conveyed through words, even seemingly calm soothing words. In this case, it’s not only about how the thing is said but the placement of words in the statement.
Love, devotion, and commitment can be used just as negatively as harmful words and can be spoken calmly as well. But the placement of these words lets you know the true intention of the speaker.

2. Gaslighting relationships

I hate this one. Oh, I hate it with a passion. This was used on me so many times that I am grateful I still have a bit of self-worth left. Please pay close attention to what I’m about to tell you because it can change your lifeGaslighting is real, and some people are really good at it too.
Gaslighting is a form of convincing someone that they are crazy. For instance, if you catch your partner doing something wrong, they will turn the blame over to you. They can say a multitude of things that will make you feel like you’ve done something wrong yourself.
But there’s more to it. They can convince you that your memory of certain situations is wrong, especially if you’ve happened to mention a disturbing memory about them. They will say you are too sensitive, that everything you’ve seen or heard is all in your head.
Basically, it’s about them getting out of trouble at the expense of your sanity.

3. Humiliation in relationships

Sometimes partners will purposely embarrass or humiliate their matein public. I’m not sure why they do this, other than to put themselves in a good light and their partner in a bad one. I guess it’s about defaming a reputation in hopes of getting their own way.
Now, fun teasing is okay, because many couples do this, but insults and degrading comments are never okay. Honestly, intelligent people, who see this being done to you, will probably realize the motivation behind what’s being done, which is a good thing.
Let’s hope many people are learning more about toxic relationship dynamics.

4. When you’re always to blame

By the way, I also hate this one too. I’ve been in a relationship before where it was almost impossible for my partner to take the blame for anything, and apologies were rare. You are in a verbally abusive partnership when your partner will not take the blame, it’s that simple.
When you fight, it will be because you upset him or when something is forgotten, it will be because you never reminded her. You get the picture. To them, it will always be your fault.

5. The overly jealous relationship

Being a little jealous is okay, but being obsessive about it is not. It can be turned into a verbally abusive and hurtful relationship. If your partner starts hounding you about flirting with others or cheating when you’re late coming home, then they have become obsessive, and this is toxic indeed.
Because even though jealousy may not initially be verbal, it will soon turn into questioning, prying, and even public humiliation. It tends to escalate rather quickly.

6. The undermining relationship

A verbally toxic and abusive relationship can also include undermining. What undermining does is it makes the victim of abuse question their own interests and other choices. An abusive partner will criticize their mate’s clothing, music, and even food choices until the victim starts to question their own choices themselves.
This is also a form of control and may be hard to recognize at first. This is usually due to the fact that the abuser wraps their criticism in caring statements. They say they want to support their partner and they know they can do better.
Have you heard this before? You just have to learn how to tell the difference between real support and manipulation.

What can we do?

verbally abusive relationship - What can we do
If you’re in a relationship that has any of these characteristics, it’s time to do inventory. Pay attention to the way your partner acts in certain situations or during arguments. Many times, they will have a hard time with healthy communication and will say the communication is being argumentative.
Usually, the abusive partner will get angry instead of trying to talk things through, not always, but most of the time.
So, with this being said, I hope you can find a way to stop verbal abuse if you endure this. A verbally abusive relationship can damage both your physical and mental health if not approached in the right way and resolved.
Sometimes, unfortunately, leaving the toxic relationship is the only solution. This will be up to you.
I wish you well.
References:
  1. https://www.psychologytoday.com/
  2. https://www.womenshealth.gov/
 
 
About the Author
Sherrie Hurd is an artist and a regular contributor to the websites Learning Mind and Life Advancer. She spends most of her time giving life to the renegade thoughts. As the words erupt and form new life, she knows that she is yet again free from the nagging persistence of her muse. She is a mother of three and a lifetime fan of the thought-provoking and questionable aspects of the universe.
 

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Exposed: Toxic biosludge spread on food crops is contaminated with RADIOACTIVE medical waste ~ Ethan Huff.

Exposed: Toxic biosludge spread on food crops is contaminated with RADIOACTIVE medical waste.

By: Ethan Huff.

January 30, 2019 by Edward Morgan. 

 
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When the experts congregate to discuss the topic of biosolids safety, one major issue that’s rarely, if ever, brought to the table is the propensity for concentrated sewage sludge – which is what biosolids are, by the way – to become contaminated with radioactive isotopes.
During an exclusive, behind-the-scenes interview with the Brighteon Films team, Texas resident and biosolids expert Craig Monk addressed this very real threat, particularly as it pertains to hospitals and medical facilities where radioactive waste is commonly flushed down the toilet.
Whether directly for disposal purposes or through human waste, radioactive byproducts are prevalent in many sewer systems as a result – though nothing is currently being done to address the problem. As far as we know, radioactive biosolids are routinely being dumped all across American farms, and neither the U.S. Environmental Protection Agency (EPA), or any other government authority, is taking notice.
“There are radioactive isotopes in sewage sludge,” Monk revealed during his interview, which you can watch below in its entirety at Brighteon.com.
“If you think about it, when we say ‘medical waste,’ we’re talking about everything flushed down the toilet at a hospital. There are radioactive isotopes that are injected into patients, and your body disposes of them through urine and feces.”

Nearly HALF of all regulated users of radioactive materials dump their waste into sanitary sewer systems

Monk isn’t the only one warning about the dangers of radioactive biosolids. Back in 2011, Robert K. Bastian from the EPA’s Office of Wastewater Management gave a presentationin which he revealed that biosolids are a common source of radioactive waste.
Of the 22,000 regulated users of radioactive materials under the Atomic Energy Act (AEA), he revealed, roughly 9,000 of them “have the potential to release radioactive materials [in]to sanitary sewer systems.”
Some of the examples he presented included medical isotopes released into sewer systems at patients’ homes; naturally occurring radioactive materials such as radium and uranium that seep into community water supplies; and runoff of “global radioactive fallout” into storm sewers.
All of the above, and more, routinely introduce radioactive materials into municipal wastewater treatment systems, which currently lack the technology to remove them from the “treated” final product – meaning the end product more than likely contains dangerous levels of radioactive isotopes.
“The fact that this radioactive sludge waste is dumped on farms across America should be more than alarming to America’s food consumers,” warned Mike Adams, aka the Health Ranger, food science pioneer and author of Food Forensics. “This means millions of Americans are consuming foods that are grown in radioactive waste. It sounds like a dystopian science fiction film, but it happens to accurately describe the state of the food farming industry in America today.”
For more news about biosolids, be sure to check out Biosolids.news.

Scientific paper admits that there are no federal regulations governing radioactive materials in sewage sludge

A comprehensive study published in the Journal of Environmental Quality back in 2005 further elucidates the threat of radiation in EPA-approved biosolids.
This paper admits that radioactive materials “are an ever-present component of the natural environment,” and that publicly owned wastewater treatment plants “can receive naturally occurring radioactive material (NORM) or man-made radionuclides from many sources.”
While the researchers involved with uncovering these and other dirty details behind radioactive biosolids claim that concentrations aren’t high enough to cause a public health threat, they simultaneously admit that there “are no specific federal regulations that limit the levels of radioactive material in sewage sludge.”
“The solids-associated radionuclides can be even further concentrated in the ash produced by sewage sludge incineration,” the paper further admits, revealing that concentrated sewage sludge likely contains more radiation than even the raw sewage waste that’s flushed into wastewater treatment plants.
This and more is covered in-depth in the new Brighteon Films documentary Biosludged, which you can watch the official trailer for at Brighteon.com.
You can also watch Biosludged in its entirety for FREE at Biosludged.com.
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