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Federation of Light 2020/02/09

Blossom Goodchild

February 9th 2020.

 
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Hi Guys. Making this time to hang out with you, so very much hoping you are home and ready for a chat?
Welcome to you and welcome to All. Even those who know nothing of us, we still send out welcoming Loving thoughts to them, for that which we say, that which we intend to assist … goes ‘out there’ anyway and reaches their Energy whether they are aware of it or not, or whether they want it to or not. This is not interfering with free will. This is producing opportunities at their door step should they choose to open the door.
Keep that it mind, Dearest One’s, if you will. ALL good thoughts, ALL kind intentions, ALL that is for the Highest Good of ALL, sent out to ALL … is never in vain. Sometimes, it may feel that very little of these ‘Goodness thoughts’ reach their destination. This is not so. Always the destination is reached, yet, the fact remains that there is always choice as to whether or not these Energies of Love are absorbed at the time, or simply left ‘dangling’ until such time when the receiver is ready to accept and indeed, receive.
That’s interesting because I thought that if one sent out Loving thoughts to someone in need, that no matter what, they would make a difference.
They do. Even when they are ‘just hanging around waiting’ to be received, they engage in a dance with the … would we say … ‘outer energies’ of that soul or circumstance and nudge away little by little to penetrate through. It is rather like knocking down a brick wall … after much hammering away … it weakens the structure and suddenly, just when one feels it is a pointless exercise, the wall comes crumbling down.
Dearest Ones. Never feel that your thoughts to another or The Whole (for they are One and the same) fall on stoney ground. Have you not witnessed flowers growing up through concrete?
Every Good thought, every Good intention is NEVER wasted. For within these ‘prayer formations’ are again, ‘codes’ that heal on other levels.
We would put it in a childlike way such as this. If you were to be sending out thoughts through the ether’s to someone far away … and to get there, these thoughts had to travel over land and sea … imagine how many souls, birds, flowers, tress, blades of grass, droplets of rain and full oceans they have to ‘pass through’ to get there. So what you may imagine to be a kind gesture of Loving thought to someone far away, actually turns out to be a massive healing project as your Love passes through all these Living Energies on its way to the recipient.
Do not underestimate every move you make. Do not undervalue every thought process that is for the Highest Good of ALL. The POWER within your thoughts of Good intent is way, way, way beyond your imaginings. Because your imaginings have been hindered and curtailed over time, to leave you ‘believing’ that your ‘healing skills’ are very limited … or only fully comprehended by Gurus sitting on top of a mountain.
Stretch your minds, Dearest Souls.
Stretch your limitations. Do not believe ANYMORE that when you get to be a really, really, really Good person, that maybe then, you can heal a sore finger and feel Blessed for doing so and having such a gift.
WITH RESPECT … DO NOT HANG AROUND WAITING TO BECOME SOMEONE/SOMETHING THAT YOU ALREADY ARE!
Stop the dilly dallying. Recognise the TRUTH … RIGHT NOW!
THESE HEALING POWERS, THESE ‘TRAVELLING WITHOUT VEHICLE’ POWERS, THESE POWERS THAT SURPASS THE GREATEST WIZARDRY YOU CAN IMAGINE … LIE WITHIN. WITHIN EACH ONE OF YOU.
They are part of your make up. They are not to be earned through merit of being a Good Human Being.
All of you are Good Human Beings. Each and every one … at heart … are Goodness. For each and everyone come from the Godself.
You are aware and sickened by the acts of those who believe they are ruling your Planet.
Believe? Are they not actually ruling it then?
No. They only ‘think’ they are …
Yet, what you think you are., you become.
Exactly. So, if you think and believe that your Planet s being run by those of Lesser Light, then so be it.
Yet it is, isn’t it?
Because you believe this to be so. Change your beliefs!
You see, this is where I get confused. It is more than obvious to us that those of lesser Light are running the show … have you not said this yourself?
Yes we have. Yet, they are running the show because it is embedded within the belief system that they are.
Because it’s true???!
Because one has believed it is so.
If each and every one that is aware of this, changed their attitude … changed their knowing … changed their belief system to a different one … say one turned their thoughts around and BELIEVED that your Planet was run by Golden Angels of Light for the Highest Good of all … if everyone did that … then the Energy flow from doing so, would make that become your Truth.
What ever you choose to think … when you think about it and focus upon it for long enough shall become your reality … This is so.
Would you say though, that it would have to be a certain percentage of the population that had to do this, in order for it to happen?
We answer to that both yes and no.
For you see, Blossom … and please do not take offence … each one of you … each soul is residing within their own world.
Exit stage left! … and … falling straight down the rabbit hole! Please continue and I will try to keep up. I just don’t understand how that can be because everyone else I know, is also in my world.
And you are in theirs! Yet … you run the show ultimately. You conduct the orchestra. You pull the strings. You write the script, design the costumes and decide what role you are going to play and what role those who act along side you will play also. Your own little masterpiece … on display …
For whom to see?
Yourself. Just yourself. Because everyone else is conducting their own show. 
Yet, surely I am in their show and how can that be when I am already appearing in my own? I can’t be in all these dramas at the same time … if I am busy producing my own.
Yes, you can and you are. For you are a reflection of that which they need you to be … in their show.
A reflection of what? Myself?
Yes. If you were to look in to a hall of mirrors you would see many visions of yourself. Many ‘productions’ of you and yet, there you are standing looking into just one mirror.
Your losing me … you know you’re losing me, don’t you?
Remain with us and allow us to flow …
Keeping in mind I am in my human mind/brain and this is doing my head in, for I cannot follow where it is leading.
Dearest Blossom. Here comes ‘the Biggie’ as you would say. You are playing out a role of yourself and who that person is … is who you are choosing to be in any one given moment of experience/experimentation. All that you see and project is your own movie theatre, as we have said. The souls that you cast to play their roles in your movie are there to serve you, in order for you to know yourself.
Yet, what are they doing in my movie when they should be in their own?
They are assisting you. They are in your movie as well as their own … for each ‘movie’ is a movie within a movie, within a movie, within a movie.
One moment please whilst I sweep my brains up off the floor!  This really is another of those chats that get us going nowhere fast and one wonders why we even began. I seriously don’t know if there is any point in continuing for once again, I am deeply lost in the warren and not a carrot in sight!
Yet, Dearest Blossom … seeds have been planted …
Yet, with respect … why confuse us even more?
Because you are ready.
Yet, what’s the point? I am confused enough just trying to get through every day, without all this entering into my awareness … and I am pretty sure I am not going to be able to lecture on it even when I am two hundred and ten … for I STILL won’t understand it.
Yet, Blossom … You know it all. You cannot understand it … from the perspective of life that you are living in.
Then have we not just wasted an hour?
Knowledge is never wasted. Nothing is ever wasted.
Surely, if it makes no sense to you, it’s wasted. I spent 4 hours on a car journey once trying to really understand what political parties stood for what, just because I felt so ignorant. Next day we may just as well have spent those four hours talking about the adventures of Noddy and Big Ears, for not one thing had sunk in … wasted time.
No … just another experience that makes up who you are. Perhaps we should bring this to a close …
Leaving the door wide open?
Of course … and yet, if we had been given the opportunity to finish that sentence  …
Oops!
We would say to EACH AND EVERY ONE coming from the deepest place of Love … that our main point of this conversation is to reiterate that YOU RUN YOUR OWN SHOW! Whether you think you do or not … whether you like it or not … whether you agree or not …   best get into your most splendid attire for not only must the show go on … yet THE GREATEST SHOW ON EARTH is about to Blossom forth FROM EACH AND EVERY ONE!
Curtain up … Light the Lights … we’ve got nothing to hit but the heights! (as the song goes). Not sure what this was all about today or indeed, how useful it may be … it is as it is. In Gratitude. In Loving service. I AM.
 
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It Is Just You...

It Is Just You…

The Creator Writings.

Transcribed by Jennifer Farley.

Posted February 7, 2020

 

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Your journey is yours.  Slowly or quickly, you set the pace and rhythm. 

Some will take great pride in treating it like a race, pointing out every milestone and commenting on how much further along they seem to be.  

If you are walking your path with honesty and integrity, you will know there is no ahead or behind.  

It is just you, taking in all you can, learning, growing and enjoying the sights

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publicado por achama às 03:43
Sábado, 08 / 02 / 20

Inner Peace Within?

Inner Peace Within?

Steve Beckow.

Golden Age of Gaia.

Posted February 5th, 2019 by Wes Annac.

 
 
 
 
 
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One-hundred and seventy-six people had their lives snuffed out recently, over … well, it doesn’t really matter where. (1)
And it isn’t the only loss of life today. Catastrophes and tragedies are happening all over and on a scale that is unprecedented – witness the false flags in Australia and China.
I’d like to see killing on this planet stop in all its manifestations. I’d like there to be peace, everywhere on Earth.
However, as within, so without. If there’s an absence of peace without – that is, in my world – there must also be an absence of peace within.
Let me look.
Yes, I feel a deep vein of aggression. So an absence of peace? Yes. It draws on a well of suppressed rage.  Yes, very deep.
First formed I see in the crib when I was tied to its walls each night and wheeled into the kitchen to wail. I had excema and my parents needed sleep so they tied my arms to the crib so I couldn’t scratch and left me in the kitchen. I learned to rage – and suppress it.
At that point it was rage at my two parents, but in later life it became focused against the emotional and physical abuse of my father.

After learning karate, I no longer had to suppress myself. But the residue of abuse is still there and feels like a volcano waiting to go off.
I once felt the volcano explode in 1986, when I discovered I was dissociated and remembered why. (2)  That rage lasted three weeks.
I switch into the upset clearing process and invite the experience of the volcanic energy to come up. But it doesn’t come up right away.
The more suppressed a person is, the more the build-up of rageful energy. We just go deeper and deeper into rage as the suppression continues, resenting, scheming, and resisting.
I meditate on the energy. I feel lifetime after lifetime of suppression of one type or another. Every prior age had some mechanism of suppression associated with it.  I feel the weight of it all.
Releasing the energy is like releasing the Hoover Dam
Now suppressed rage is coming up. I experience it. I observe it. I just “be with it” until it completes itself.
I invoke the Law of Elimination and Sanat Kumara to have this volcanic rage removed. Please send the energy back to the Mother for recycling.
I no longer need it. I’m complete with it.
I see that rage covers peace. When rage leaves, it reveals the peace that was always there, beneath it.
I now feel peace.
Footnotes
(1) Danielle Wallace, “Ukrainian plane carrying 176 crashes outside Tehran, killing all on board,” Fox News, Jan. 9, 2020, at https://www.foxnews.com/world/ukrainian-plane-crash-tehran-iran-180-passengers

(2) When I was seven, my Dad yelled at me from inches away from my face and I shattered into a thousand pieces. It was only when my then girlfriend said to me in 1986, “Do you know you have the profile of an abused child,” that two sides of me arose and said, “Yes.” And then looked at each other as if to say, “Who are you?” I then knew I had two sides to myself, one of which only I knew. It still wasn’t until 2004 that the two sides of me fused back together and I knew I was no longer dissociated.






 

 

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POWERFUL FULL MOON WEEKEND AHEAD

POWERFUL FULL MOON WEEKEND AHEAD

Kate Spreckley's Inspiration.


February 7, 2020


 

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We are in a cycle of enormous transformation which has triggered the very depths of our soul and brought to light that which we need to heal, release and integrate. The current cosmic alignments are bringing a sense of completion to this cycle. With the Full Moon this weekend we have some powerful energies coming in that will continue to push, prod and challenge us to move beyond our past history and detach from the old.

While processing and integrating the current energies you may encounter a range of different experiences, emotions and feelings that will challenge you to shift and expand your perspective. As this process unfolds it may produce some uncomfortable emotional and physical symptoms - emotional outbursts, stiffness, back and neck pain, skin rashes, digestion issues, headaches and exhaustion. As uncomfortable as these symptoms are, they are a good indication that you are releasing, realigning and rebalancing your entire being. Make sure to get the support you need to ease this process. You don't have to do it alone!

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Dunbar’s Number or Why Most of Your Social Connections Are Not Your Friends

Dunbar’s Number or Why Most of Your Social Connections Are Not Your Friends.

Janey Davies.

https://www.learning-mind.com

February 7th, 2020.

 
Dunbar’s Number.
 
 
 
Have you heard of Dunbar’s number? My sister certainly has. Years ago, when her new neighbour asked her if she wanted to pop round for a coffee, she said: “No thanks, I’ve got enough friends.”
 
Now, before you start judging my sis for being unnecessarily blunt, she does have a point. And that’s where Dunbar’s number comes in. You see, it suggests that a person can only maintain a maximum of 150 social connections at once. So why is this and where does the idea come from?
 
The Origin of Dunbar’s Number
 
Robin Dunbar is a British anthropologist and an evolutionary psychologist. Back in the 1990s, he was interested in the number of social connections a person could have.
 
For instance, how many people do we know; how many do we actually care about and is there a common link to this number? Do some people have more connections, others less? Now, remember, this was the 90s so well before social media and ‘likes’ and ‘friends’ and all of that.
 
Dunbar began his research by examining the patterns of sending Christmas cards.
Dunbar and the Christmas Card List
 
Sending cards at Christmas seems fairly innocuous, but there is a certain amount of investment involved. You make the list of people, you choose and buy the cards, the stamps, and you look up the addresses. Then you write them all out and post them. It all takes time and effort. Dunbar reckoned that most of us would not go to all this trouble and effort for just anyone.
 
After collecting data from thousands of households, Dunbar found a remarkable coincidence. Of every household he collected data from, the average number of cards sent was always around 150. There was also a fairly unanimous split in who the cards went to. For example, around a quarter were sent to close relatives, two-thirds to friends and the remaining small percentage to colleagues.
 
But why did the number 150 keep cropping up? It was a mystery. Dunbar carried on researching. But this time he turned his attention to primates and social groups.
Why Is Dunbar’s Number 150?
 
Dunbar discovered a link between a primate’s brain and the size of their social groups. Specifically, their brain mass and the primate’s preferred group sizes. He looked at different primate species and catalogued social activity.
 
In particular, time spent grooming (the equivalent of socialising for humans), the size of the neocortex (the area of the brain related to language and cognition) and group size. He found that in primates, the smaller the size of the brain, the smaller the size of the groups were formed. As brain mass increased, so did group size.
 
 
Dunbar proposed that brain size was the overriding factor in deciding the number of social connections a primate could successfully manage. Dunbar then collected data across all primate species, including humans.
 
He proposed that humans can only comfortably maintain 150 social connections. Larger numbers require stricter social rules and larger neocortical processing capacity.
So what exactly does Dunbar mean by 150 and social connections?
 
Dunbar characterises the number 150 as:
 
 
“..the number of people you would not feel embarrassed about joining uninvited for a drink if you happened to bump into them in a bar.”
 
There is strong evidence, throughout history, that shows 150 is an average size for social groups. Indeed, it is the optimum number for a group. For when numbers start to exceed this size things tend to collapse or fail to function effectively.
Dunbar’s Number applies to many social groups
 
Even our earliest ancestors, the cave-dwellers, the hunter-gatherers, lived in groups consisting, on average, of 150 people. The earliest villages consisted of around 150 people. From African tribes to Roman legions, we are always drawn back to this magic number of 150.
 
Perhaps stranger still, Dunbar and his magic number of 150 can be seen in many other aspects of human social groups, not just our personal lives. For example, offices, campsites, hotels, military organisations, even book-clubs. Indeed, research proves time and time again that if numbers exceed 150 the group fails.
150 only applies to primates and humans
 
So why 150? It appears that 150 is the prime number for evolutionary survival. Primates, in particular, live in social groups, and this helps them to survive. In our ancestor’s time, humans were prey, not predators. We didn’t have sharp teeth, razor-like claws or strong muscles.
 
 
Whereas it suited other predators to hunt alone, for humans to stay alive, we needed to form groups. We used our shared knowledge and cunning. We planned and formulated ways of attack. For us, staying in strong, social groups was a matter, literally, of survival.
 
Now, look at other animals. For instance, the tiger, a predator at the top of the food chain, or a penguin, prey and near the bottom. Tigers are solitary animals. They survive without the need of a group and therefore hunt alone.
 
On the other hand, penguins are at risk from many predators, including extreme weather conditions. As a result, it is in their best interest to form huge groups. In fact, some of the largest penguin colonies have consisted of up to 180,000 to 200,000 birds.
 
Of course, tigers and penguins are very different from primates and humans. Penguins may form groups but they are not social in the way that human groups are. For the penguins, it is all about staying alive. For humans, it is more about emotional, psychological and spiritual connections.
 
And this is where it gets interesting. Because it takes a lot of effort to maintain all this emotion, and our brain can only manage so much. However, have we changed in the 21st century?
Has Social Media Changed Dunbar’s Number?
 
Now, in today’s society, there is nothing unusual for a person to have hundreds, if not thousands of friends on Facebook. So is it possible that Dunbar’s number no longer applies in our modern world?
 
Dunbar first proposed the number 150 in the 1990s. The 2020s is a very different place. We communicate online. We meet for the first time online. We date online. Surely, Dunbar’s number must have increased a little to keep up with our modern society?
 
 
I mean, this doesn’t make sense for a modern age. People communicate in seconds across the globe. Our social reach has expanded as our grasp of technology has stretched our imaginations. Also, I would have thought that our brain capacity would have increased substantially since our ancestors first set up villages over 250,000 years ago.
 
Well, not really. And that’s because it is all to do with our emotional capacity.
 
 
“It is as though we each have a limited amount of social capital and we can choose to invest it thinly in more people, or thickly in fewer people. But you can’t exceed these limits.” Dunbar
 
So what do these social connections look like? Dunbar arranges them in ever-decreasing circles. Our closest friends are in our inner circle and our acquaintances are in the furthest circle.
Most people, on average, have:
5 loved ones
15 best friends
50 good friends
150 meaningful contacts
500 acquaintances
1500 people you recognise
 
So we may know thousands of people, but Dunbar states that the 150 number is the important cut-off.
 
 
“The 150 layer is the important one: this defines the people you have real reciprocated relationships with, those where you feel obligations and would willingly do favours.” Dunbar
 
Because humans are complex creatures, maintaining these relationships take effort and time. And that’s why we only have the capacity for 150 social connections.
 
Of course, people move in and out of our lives at any given point. There are also huge differences between the social connections of an extrovert and an introvert. An extrovert may have a larger social network. However, they tend to spread themselves out thinly across a wide network of people. Introverts have a smaller social pool of contacts. But they like to spend more quality time with a few special friends.
 
 
There are also interesting differences between the genders. For example, men have a wider spread of contacts throughout their social circles. Whereas women have more contacts within their inner circles.
Final Thoughts
 
So is there really any advantage to knowing that humans have a limited capacity for maintaining social connections? Well, I think so yes. I realise it is all about time and effort. If we only have space for 150 connections then we should make sure those connected to us are worth the effort, and that we make the effort to preserve them.
 
Oh, and my sister? She did pop round for that coffee after all. They’ve been good friends ever since.
References:
  1. www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov
  2. www.forbes.com
  3. www.bbc.com
 

 

 
Janey Davies

 





About the Author: Janey Davies.
Janey Davies has been published online for over 8 years. She is the head writer for Shoppersbase.com, she also writes for AvecAgnes.co.uk, Ewawigs.com and has contributed to inside3DP.com. She has an Honours Degree in Psychology and her passions include learning about the mind, popular science and politics. When she is relaxing she likes to walk her dog, read science fiction and listen to Muse.
 
 
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publicado por achama às 02:45
Sábado, 08 / 02 / 20

22 Things You Must Come To Terms With If You Want To Live Your Best Life

22 Things You Must Come To Terms With If You Want To Live Your Best Life.

By Gerald Sinclair.

Posted February 6, 2020 by Edward Morgan. 

 
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In this world, there are tons of things that we struggle to accept and those things in many ways can hold us back if we put them off for too long. Sure, it might be hard to grasp that we will all die someday but the truth behind it cannot be denied.
In this life the sooner you begin to come to terms with the hard truths that we all face the sooner you can live the life you’re meant to live. By refusing to accept these things we keep ourselves trapped in more ways than most people stop to consider. Below I am going to go over some of these things and break them down as best I can. 
Of course, it takes time to really let these things sink in but putting them in your mind and allowing your thoughts to grow from there can be a big part of moving forward in some of the best possible ways. Just because you don’t want to think about something does not change the fact that it is part of this reality we’re living in.

22 Things You Have To Come To Terms With If You Want To Live Your Best Life:

1. Life is not and will never be fair.

Nothing in this world is fair. You will see bad people with wonderful things and good people with nothing. Life doesn’t just hit those who are deserving with the things they need or want. It just doesn’t work that way as sad as it sounds.

2. We all have our own problems.

No one on this world is free from problems. While your problems and my problems are different, we are all experiencing our own things. You cannot say you are struggling more if you cannot see my struggle.

3. You cannot change the past, sorry.

You are unable to change the past so you should not be allowing it power over you. Never dwell on things you cannot change. Life is constantly moving forth and you will get lost if you allow your present moment to waste away.

4. Time is something we will never have enough of.

We are all running out of time. Life is short and time is something we can never get back. Each moment as it ticks away is another moment lost. Make the most of the time you have here on this planet.

5. Some battles are not meant to be fought.

Sometimes walking away is the best option. You don’t always have to engage with others. If things are going south consider whether or not the fight you’re facing is worth it or not.

6. Complaining is a waste of your time.

The more you complain the more time you waste. Just get things done and work through the problems before you. Once you accomplish that you can spend all the time you want enjoying things.

7. You cannot please everyone.

There are people in this world who will never be happy. You cannot please everyone and coming to terms with that will be one of the best things you ever do. Life is too short to spend time trying to do things for people who don’t appreciate your efforts to begin with.

8. You don’t owe anyone anything and no one owes you anything, point blank.

You do not owe anyone anything and no one owes you anything either. You do what you want and live the life you see fit. Don’t go through each day letting other people make your decisions for you.

9. We are extremely fragile beings.

We might think we are at the top of the food chain and completely invincible but the truth is we as human beings are very fragile. We become broken very easily and need to handle ourselves with care. Stop letting other people walk all over you.

10. Relationships take effort from both parts, not just one.

If you’re the only one putting forth effort in your relationship things will never work. You both need to be doing all you can for one another to really keep things going. This kind of connection is not easy to nurture and if you’re the only one nurturing it, it was doomed from the start.

11. Most people you meet don’t actually care about you at all.

Most of the people you meet in this world do not care about you even if they say they do. We as human beings love to use one another. This place is full of people who will only hurt you if you let them too close. Choose the people in your life wisely.

12. Your appearance is not everything.

Looks do not matter. What truly matters is who you are on the inside. You could be beautiful but have a bad personality and guess what? No one would want to be near you.

13. Actions do speak louder than words.

When someone says they will do something, make sure they follow through. Look at their actions. Don’t get too close to those who refuse to do the things they agree to. We all need those in our lives that we can rely on.

14. Sometimes you have to fail so you can succeed later on.

In this world we have to fail sometimes to get where we need to be so that we can succeed. Failure is all a part of success in the end and you need to know that. Just because you aren’t where you want to be right now does not mean you should give up.

15. Love is not an excuse to stay in a toxic situation/relationship.

Just because you love someone does not mean you should put up with them abusing you or being overly toxic as a whole. You deserve someone in your life who puts the efforts into things that you do. Someone who will be there for you in all the best ways instead of just beating you down on the inside.

16. Just because you want something doesn’t mean you can have it or should have it.

Sure, there are tons of things we all want in this life but that doesn’t mean we can have those things. We all have to come to terms with the fact that sometimes things are a little more impossible than we think. While there is nothing wrong with having dreams, be realistic.

17. No one lives forever.

Everyone dies at some point. The people you care about will not be with you forever. You eventually will pass away and no longer be of this world.

18. People will judge you, that’s just a part of life.

No matter how hard you try to impress others there will always be people who judge you. People love to judge one another and it is a habit we cannot break everyone of. Being judged does not define you and the thoughts these people place in your mind are not true unless you allow them to be.

19. Not everyone you get close to is going to stick around.

Sometimes we get attached to people who were not meant to be in our lives permanently. This world is full of temporary people. A lot of the people in your life right now will not be by your side five years from now.

20. Your pride isn’t actually worth anything, let go of it.

Sure, you might be a bit prideful overall but it’s not worth anything and is something you should let go of. Pride holds us back in more ways than you could ever imagine. If you hold onto your pride you will never be able to grow properly.

21. Mistakes are meant to be made so that we can learn from them.

Each mistake we make holds a lesson. Learning from those lessons is very important. If you’re not willing to learn, you will never be able to come to terms with the things you’ve done in your past.

22. True happiness comes from within.

Being in a relationship will not make you happy and having nice things will not make you happy. Happiness in its truest form comes from within. You have to find it inside of yourself if you truly want it.
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