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Quarta-feira, 15 / 05 / 19

Hologame of Time ~ The Team, Peggy Black.

Hologame of Time.

The Team via Peggy Black.

May 13th, 2019. 

 
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We are here offering you another opportunity to stretch your known reality. You are so comfortable with all that is familiar, with all your preconceived ideas and beliefs that allow you to participate in your daily activities without questions such as what dimension am I focused on now, how am I relating to time and what are my beliefs about time?
We have been offering the idea and inviting you to be aware of the magnetic and solar activities that are stirring up the collective consciousness. There is a shift of energy being offered that continues to increase. This increasing energy shift is being felt in and through your nervous system and your body’s electrical fields body.
Be aware of how your physical body is feeling, notice when you are feeling out of balance, or even a bit dizzy. Pause and take a deep breath. This simple action will assist you to reset. Your physical body is adjusting to this increase in energy and vibration, which is part of the process of illumination and advanced consciousness.
These stimulating vibrations and frequencies are opening several channels within the energy field of the human being. This is a part of the ascension process of which you have been aware, part of the awakening of humanity, the shift into the higher dimensions.
The first aspect of this transmutation is to realize your understanding of time needs to shift. Each and every person without fail lives in a different time reality governed by their perception of the learned/programmed concept of this time matrix. We realize we are exposing one of your most sacred belief systems and we understand your resistance and your confusion. Time does not exist on the higher dimensions.
So as you continue to welcome and expand your consciousness, time as you know it will begin to waffle. It will become irregular, elusive and baffling. Time is shifting which creates the sense that it is speeding up. This is one aspect of your hologame that you can begin to recognize and monitor. Remember you are consciously bigger than time.
Let’s just explore the concept of time. Time that exists in your belief systems, time that is a part of this third dimensional construct does not exist in the other dimensions. So each individual is confronted with their old third dimensional time beliefs and what they are now experiencing as they move in consciousness to the other dimensions.
We understand that you still will need the construct of time in order to function in your daily life right now. Humanity has recorded time, with history, past events, clocks, calendars and all manner and methods of measure. So there is no need to eliminate all the ways to keep track of time. We are just encouraging you to become more aware of how fluid, flexible and manageable your experience of time is. This is important because it will show you how you utilize time in your dimension.
We would like to offer you a suggestion that the references you make about time keep you locked into a limited reality. Time is a concept here on your planet. All your words about time continue to keep you in a mind-set of restrictions. Some examples common in your reality are: not enough time, time is short, time is running out, rush time, time is moving too fast, losing time, wishing for more time, wish time would hurry up, time is moving so slowly and where did time go?
We believe you are getting the idea. These are beliefs about time. Time, like everything else, responds to your attitudes, your beliefs, your statements, your words, your vibrations.
Time is one of the fabrics of your earthy game. It is a veil. It keeps you in the illusion. It is wise to realize that time is created only to serve a certain aspect of physical reality.
We continue touching one of your planet’s sacred beliefs. We don’t expect this information to change the laws of the game. We would desire that your awareness would shift. In that shifting of your beliefs about time there is much freedom to begin to move between the dimensions with greater awareness and ease. As you transform your time beliefs, it will be reflected in your physical reality and beyond.
Once you can recognize that time is an abstract, that it doesn’t really exist, that it is just part of the hologame and everyone has given it much importance, this will free you.
The essence of who you are is beyond time. The essence of who you are sees time as an imaginary game much like ones that children play. We know that you do live here in this game with time. We understand you can honor time with its limited concepts and still know the freedom of “NO TIME.” It is in the space of “NO TIME” that you will travel between all dimensions.
We invite you to play a little with this thing called time. Pretend that you can stretch it, expand it, mold it in ways that support your day and your projects. Make time your friend; remember it is very elastic, it is very flexible. Play with it in a new way today. Relax into your tasks, laugh, lighten up. Allow yourself to step into the stream of time from many different levels, from many different vantage points. Remember that your breath can shift your perception of your experience of time. Be aware that you are experiencing a tremendous shift in evolution.
Live in each moment, bring your consciousness to each NOW. This will offer you the most expanded viewpoint of time in this realignment that is taking place between your planet and the entire solar system. It is from the present moment of now that you are allowed and welcomed to dance between the dimensions. You are multidimensional; time is only a breath, it is only a thought.
We are complete in this remembering. You are a magnificent multidimensional starhuman playing in the hologame of time. Allow yourself to stretch into this awesome expanded energy that is being offered. Invite us and other divine beings to show you how to travel time. the ‘team’.

Peggy Black

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publicado por achama às 18:44
Quarta-feira, 15 / 05 / 19

You are in the midst of crumbling world structures ~ Brenda Hoffman

You are in the midst of crumbling world structures...

by Brenda Hoffman.

Channeled Message.

 

April 10th, 2019

 

 

 

Dear Ones,

There are undercurrents within your societies different from outward appearances. So it is you become upset when someone does this or that even though their actions – unknown to you – are fulfilling your dreams.

You are in the midst of crumbling world structures as you wait for some knight to make everything right – in your mind. That knight is not going to appear for you are the creator of your life.

The phrase, ‘you are the creator of your life,’ does not mean what you once thought it did. For you believed someone would appear to make your life easier so you would have time and energy to create. In truth, you are the knight in shining armor saving the world.

What gives you joy? That emotion is now the center of your world and of all who wish to move beyond 3D.

You likely believe all will flourish together, despite being informed over and over that you are unique individuals. You are waiting for sameness, even though sameness is filled with the shoulds and have tos you abandoned once you crossed into 5D.

Your new world is about the uniqueness you and all of 5D and beyond are creating. Allowing all to be free in their decisions and actions.

Such might seem frightening now for you cannot yet conceive of individuality despite your disdain for any groups attempting to create a whole while ignoring the uniqueness of its members.

How is it possible for you to be free if you need to follow the guidelines of a specific government or religion? It is time for you to find your joy, your life – and to stop waiting for someone to create your perfect world.

Of course, you respond that some will create a world of racialism, sexism, ageism, homophobia, corruption, or whatever you disagree with.

You are using 3D terms to describe your new world. For you still believe it is possible for you to ignore some pieces important to you, as you have for eons, in order to create a more perfect society. “I can accept that if you give me this,” type system that only returns you to a 3D world.

Bartering your rightness, your knowingness is no longer part of your new creations. Who are you? Not who are you within society, but who are you as a unique individual?

You are so comfortable accepting crumbs of comfort that you cannot even envision a world in which you experience joy – not acceptance – joy.

No one but you can create your new world. What gives you joy, is the only governmental, personal, group, committee rule to which you need adhere.

Such freedom seems unwieldy for you do not trust others to be as accepting and loving as you hope you are. So you wish to cage others within your framework of what is right for you.

Such is not how your new world will evolve. For in the 3D past, societies were created from the top (dictator, king/queen, president, chieftain) down. You are now creating from the bottom up.

A concept so radical you cannot yet conceive such is possible. Does not someone need to tell you how and when to function? Does there not need to be a consensus held by the majority, followed by the minority?

So it is you forgot a concept you learned years ago that the new world will be in harmony as is true for birds who sing different melodies only to create a beautiful sound not possible if all birds chirped the same sound.

Allow yourself to grow in this new concept of a unique world ruled by unique individuals who do not expect anyone to think or act as they do.

This radical concept likely does not seem possible for you now. Not because it is not possible, but because it is such a new concept – just as democracy, socialism, a monotheistic religion, or any governmental form seemed initially. Who and why were kingdoms thought to be the best form of government? So it went one societal structure after another proclaiming itself right for the time. And those structures were right for those times.

This is a new world calling for new dynamics – most important of which is living in joy, not for some but for all. Your joy is not necessarily your best friend’s joy. Even though you accepted that friendship truth without much thought, allowing everyone to be free seems impossible now.

It will not seem so once you truly allow yourself to move in joy. Joy is the structure of your new world. Such does not mean you will live in joy but not your neighbor, as has been true in the past, but that all are living in joy.

You cannot yet sense how such is possible given how divided countries are now politically and ideologically. In the not-to-distant future, countries will accept they have different needs. So instead of large physical areas monitored and controlled by a small group of people, small groups will form communities that feel right for them.

This new format will be initiated by groups who no longer wish to be part of the larger whole. So it will go until humanity follows their inner-voice to find the correct locations and actions for them. And all will start with individuals like you following your joy.

Follow your joy and you will be part of the new world. Try to create a body to govern others and you will feel thwarted at every juncture. So be it. Amen.

Brenda Hoffman



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Quarta-feira, 15 / 05 / 19

Collapsing Time into the NOW of KNOWING ~ Arcturians, Suzanne Lie.

Collapsing Time into the NOW of KNOWING.

A Message from the Arcturians.

Through Suzanne Lie.

May 14th, 2019. 

A message from the past about the future!

 
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(This Arcturian message from 9-17-15 patiently waited somewhere in my computer for almost four years. It popped out at me today and called me to share it. Therefore I am sharing it NOW. Sue)
 
  Collapsing Time Into the NOW of KNOWING
Message from The Arcturians
 
SEE BELOW MESSAGE FROM 2015.09.17
 
(Do you remember where, and who, you were then? I sure can’t! 
But I will take the challenge to honor that moment of that NOW.)
 

 
Greetings, 
We, the Arcturians, are here to remind you that as third-dimensional “time” begins to collapse into the fifth dimensional “NOW,” the concept of REMEMBERING is gradually replaced with the concept of KNOWING. 
 
At first “knowing” feels similar to remembering, but as you increasingly realize that remembering had doubt, whereas knowing just “IS,” you can “feel the difference.” In other words, when you KNOW, you are free of doubt, but when you remember, the challenge of “remembering correctly comes into your consciousness.
 
However, being free of doubt can also be difficult as there is nowhere to hide within you doubt. It is then that you can feel completely vulnerable in your daily process of full disclosure of all that has blocked your ascension so far.
 
Therefore, this “freedom of doubt” also has a liberating feeling. Most people have no idea how much their doubt has interfered with their life. This may have occurred because most people have never lived without some form of doubt. 
 
We, the Arcturians, wish to remind you that freedom from doubt allows you to progress deeper and deeper into the NOW the remembering the “knowing” that was always there but was too often forgotten.
 
Remembering is a time-based concept because you perceive your self in the present while you begin to remember the past and ponder the future. Therefore, remembering is a third/fourth-dimensional construct.
 
We use the word “construct” because your third/fourth-dimensional brain has constructed a “barrier” around unsafe memories from your past. That “past” could have been yesterday or myriad lives before your present third-dimensional incarnation.
 
However, as third/fourth-dimensional time begins to collapse, it is replaced with the “no-time” of fifth dimensional NOW. In other words, as the third/dimensional time slowly unravels within the synapses of your physical brain, you begin to search for what you believe you have lost.
 
It is within this searching that you begin to find your Higher SELF. Your Higher SELF will likely be a Galactic and/or a Celestial being, as you ALL have lived many versions of your Multidimensional SELF through your many incarnations.
 
The versions of your Multidimensional SELF that you will first remember will likely be the ones with whom you have been consciously, or unconsciously, communicating with for the “long time” of your many third dimensional incarnations on Gaia’s 
 
If you have been consciously communicating with your expanded SELF, you may, or may not, have recognized that this “SELF” resonates to a higher dimensional expression of your own, too often forgotten, Multidimensional SELF.
 
Once you realize that YOU, the one who is wearing the 3D earth vessel, is just one of the myriad versions of your true, Multidimensional SELF, the experience of releasing and/or losing, time, will greatly accelerate. 
 
It is then that you will increasingly realize that you are going through the familiar process of growing up. However, this “growing up,” is not just the growing up of your physical body as that body shifts from infant, to baby, to toddler, to child, to teen, and to adult. Within the NOW of this new “sense of maturation,” you are literally “growing UP” in frequency. 
 
This “growing up” is not measured by your age. Your inter-dimensional process of “growing up” is measured by the dimensions of reality to which your consciousness is resonating during any given third-dimensional time. 
 
In other words, within this higher frequency of reality “age” is not measured by time, but is measured via the frequency of reality that is the primary frequency of your perceptions and interactions. 
 
We say “frequency of perceptions” as most humans experience their reality via the perceptions of that which is around and within their third dimensional, and sometimes fourth dimensional, reality. 
 
However, as Gaia resonates more and more to the fifth dimension of reality, those who reside on Gaia’s Planetary Body will also think more in terms of a fifth-dimensional reality. 
 
In fact, once your consciousness expands to even encompass the mid-planes of the fourth dimension, you will realize how very child-like you were when you limited your sense of SELF to the third dimension.
 
As your concepts of time and place begin to transmute into your concepts of HERE and NOW, your consciousness increasingly encompasses the space within you, as well as the space around you.
 
Some of you have chosen a slow, gradual progression of your “return to the NO Time of your True SELF.” Others have chosen a very swift alteration of their perception of TIME, as well as a swift alteration of their perception of SELF.
 
However, no matter how gradually, or quickly, you choose to return to your fifth-dimensional SELF, as Gaia’s planetary SELF returns to Her innate fifth-dimensional planet, your sense of SELF will also change. 
 
In order for humans to make that dimensional shift, each human will need to release their addiction to third-dimensional time and space. Those who are not able to release the Time/Space Operating System of the third dimension will remain in Gaia’s third-dimensional matrix.
 
However, the third-dimensional matrix is becoming too constricting for Gaia’s expanding frequencies of Earth. Therefore, Gaia will shed her lower frequencies, much like a hermit crab sheds their shells, which they have outgrown. 
 
However, Gaia will not “leave her shell on the ocean floor” like a hermit crab.Instead, that “old fashioned 3D Matrix” will be relocated to another, a younger planet whose primary resonance will remain in the third dimension for many millennia. Those whose only reality is limited to their awareness of the third-dimensional matrix will have the third-dimensional time to continue their process of returning to their higher dimensional versions of SELF.
 
Those who remain with the ascending version of Gaia, may or may not, be aware of those who have stayed on Gaia’s third/fourth dimension of reality. The reason for this lack of awareness will be because the transmuting, third dimension will be fully involved in their own experience of shifting into a higher dimensional reality. 
 
This process of returning to their higher frequencies of SELF has been occurring for some “time,” but it was only occurring within one’s own fourth and fifth-dimensional frequencies of SELF.
 
Just as a Mother would leave her child with a “baby sitter” while she is at work and/or learning something new, Gaia has been “at work with Her Planetary Ascension” while the unaware member of humanity continued with their “normal” 3D life. 
 
However, there are those who wish to return to their Multidimensional SELF in a conscious manner. In fact, more and more of humanity is beginning to “remember.” They may not understand what they are remembering, but they know that something important 
is starting to occur.
 
In fact, those who are ready to make that shift, are already moving into very different lifestyles and versions of reality. Most of those who have chosen to return to their higher dimensional expression of SELF have learned that it is their duty to Gaia, and to Gaia’s reality, that they assist with the process of Planetary Ascension.
 
The awakened ones have realized that many people, places, and experiences are still bound to the 3D Matrix and are not ready to commune with and/or follow their own Higher Guidance.  
 
On the other hand, most of the ascending ones, have been aware of the “release process” that has been occurring beyond what their 3D self would call “time.” In fact, these awakening ones have lived within an ever-accelerating process of “letting go” of that which binds them to the 3D Matrix. 
 
With the release of their former, third-dimensional limitations, they are discovering that “time” is increasingly collapsing into the NOW. Within that NOW they are beginning to remember the higher dimensional expressions of reality, as well as their Higher SELF that resonates to the higher dimensions. 
 
Therefore, many of you are connecting with your Higher Dimensional SELF either via meditation and/or by daily communications. At first, your third-dimensional brain doubted these communications, but NOW your brain is adapting to, and learning how to live within, and communicate with, these ever-expanding frequencies of higher dimensional versions of reality. 
 
In fact, many of you are increasingly seeking guidance from within your own Higher Dimensional SELF. This inner guidance is preparing you for the shift from the third dimensional operating of time and separation to the “Multidimensional Operating System” which is based, NOT on time, but rather on the “HERE and NOW Unity with ALL life.” 
 
More and more, your “individual self” is uniting with the “waves of multidimensional energy fields and thought forms.”As more and more of you participate in this collective experience, this “multidimensional wave” will be expanding enough to “grab the attention” of many who have been trapped in the third-dimensional illusion. 
 
Therefore, we ask that you, the ones who are fully awakened and ready for active duty, assist the newly awakening ones in whatever manner you chose before you took this incarnation.
 
Yes, you, our volunteers to assist Gaia, wrote your own Mission Statements before you entered the earth vessel you are currently wearing. The first clue to remembering your own Mission Statement is that you will LOVE fulfilling and living that Mission.
 
In fact, you will likely feel impelled and driven to “do” what you have chosen to “do” before you took this form. We say “DO” because we need your help. We do not need your help because we cannot “do it ourselves.”
 
We, the Galactics, need your help because Gaia is a “free will” planet. Therefore, the members of Her planet must create their own reality. We know that, to many of you, it does not appear that you have created your own reality. 
 
But that is because you were lost to the “power over others” virus that invaded Gaia’s operating system long, long ago.
 
Gaia chose the very difficult operating system of “free will.” Free will is beautiful when guided by Power-Within SELF and Unconditional Love. However, that free will is very difficult when tainted by any need to have power over others and/or any other fear-based emotions of control over others.
 
It is for this reason, that so many Galactic and Celestial beings are actively assisting Gaia. We have discovered that too many humans are still too lost in illusion to be able to believe that there are many landings within your NOW. 
 
Therefore, since we Galactics do NOT want to create any more fear to enter into the consciousness of humanity, we are very careful to only reveal ourselves to those who are ready to “remember what they forgot.”
 
Hence, many of our emissaries of LIGHT have chosen to actually take a human body to work from within the 3D operating system. It was a very long and difficult assignment for many of us, but we are now beginning to see the results.
 
Whereas once the “sightings” of our crafts brought terror and threats of war, some of these “sightings” are now welcomed with joy and hope. Dear members of Gaia’s ascending Earth, we commend you on your magnificent RETURN TO SELF.
 
Therefore, we are continuing our “Transmissions to Earth.” In fact, we are now sending our messages to those of you who are willing to accept and translate our Light Language messages so that more and more awakening humans will be able to find, read, and share with others the higher dimensional messages that they are able to receive and share. 
 
We are presenting these messages in this fashion to encourage ALL of you to remember how YOU are receiving our Light Language, and how YOU are beginning to translate these fifth-dimensional messages into your 3D language in order to better share your message with others. 
 
The May-13, 2019 writing stopped here…
 
The message did not really end. It just stopped, as if it was now OUR message that WE most understand, share with others, meditate on, and—most important—go inside our SELF to find the message that we chose to share before we took this incarnation.
 
Good luck and Happy Hunting for your SELF. We, the Arcturians, would greatly appreciate if you share that which you have discovered with others. You can share your message by writing on this blog’s comment section, and/or by sharing your comments with others in whatever manner that resonates to YOUR Heart and Soul.
 
Blessings from the Arcturians! We bless ALL our grounded ones for the years service and the courage that it has taken you to enter into this NOW of:
 
 Collapsing Time Into the NOW of KNOWING
 
We, the Arcturians, thank you for your awakening 
And for your courage to share that process with others.
It is through the loving, courageous sharing of YOUR Awakening 
that will assist others to also share their Awakening.
 
We, the Arcturians, thank you for Awakening within this NOW!
 

Suzanne Lie
 

 
 
 



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Quarta-feira, 15 / 05 / 19

It Turns Out The Demon in Your Life is YOU! ~ Michele Zina

It Turns Out The Demon in Your Life is YOU!

By Michele Zina, In5D.com.

May 14, 2019. 

 
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Most people let their inner critic playout unchecked or un-analyzed like a demon that they wish wasn’t there. With the Law of Attraction, brutal self-critics see reflected back to them more reasons to under- cut themselves. People and circumstances then fuel the same harsh thoughts and criticism since they represent your Mirror. We live in a world that fixates on exteriors or appearances while all but ignoring who we are inside.
There is a saying “Show me who your friends are and I’ll show you who you are” talking about the importance of who you surround yourself with when relating to the influence your friends have on you. Taking it one step further, look at what or who is influencing you. People don’t often notice that they are influencing themselves often very forcefully with negative self-talk.
I hear disparaging words of criticism coming from people’s mouths about THEMSELVES. These same people would never speak that way about loved ones or friends. They don’t realize that they are cutting themselves down!

What we are inside is our true worth or value. The outside representation of this is visible in our life and actions. When we repeatedly cut ourselves down, then we are not fully THERE for OURSELVES. Who will be there for you when even YOU aren’t there for you?
Can we forge a habit of kind inner dialogue about ourselves? Self-respect, self-love, self-acceptance? We would live a very different life if we did as the Law of Attraction would match us to more kindness, more self-respect, more self-love and self-acceptance.
I am not suggesting that we tell ourselves that we Love ourselves when we may not. We can focus instead on our HEARTS. This is who we really are as a person.

Society is obsessed with how we look even though who we are as a person is much more important. The saying “Follow Your Heart” is right on! If you cultivate a habit of thinking of yourself from your Heart, you would not get so hung up on the superficial importance of exteriors which often make us feel unhappy. Stop undercutting yourselves!
Negative self-talk is very draining and unhealthy and some people do it all the time!
Be willing to be there for yourselves! Who else can you count on to be the best friend you always wanted? Who else can Love you the way you deserve to be loved!
Today can be beautiful while leading from the heart!
Michele Zina
 
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publicado por achama às 08:00
Quarta-feira, 15 / 05 / 19

6 Types of People Who Love Playing the Victim and How to Deal with Them ~ Sherrie.

6 Types of People Who Love Playing the Victim and How to Deal with Them.

By Sherrie.

May 14th, 2019

 

Dealing with those who are playing the victim can be exhausting. Who exactly are these people?
It’s hard to talk about the victim mentality because many people have no idea they’re adopting it. It can be upsetting when they learn this truth.
Don’t know what it means to play the victim? Well, that’s because so many character flaws and toxic behaviors like this are seen as normal. The fact is, being a victim and having a victim mentality isn’t the same.

Who is playing the victim game?

Playing games with people’s lives is a manipulative act. People play roles in order to get what they want, or simply because of their upbringing. They may be stuck in a negative pattern due to childhood abuse, neglect, or trauma.
Here are a few types of people who tend to use the victim mentality:

1. The selfish

Those who act in a selfish manner will use the victim strategy. Sadly, when it comes to choosing others over themselves, playing the role of the victim will remove guilt when being selfish instead.
It will also make others feel sorry for them and give in to their wants and demands. Selfless people, on the other hand, try not to use the victim mentality in order to help others without putting the spotlight on their own needs. It’s just a different mindset altogether.

2. Controlling individuals

Some people absolutely must be in control no matter what’s happening in their lives. They use pity to make sure things go their way. They want to control the outcome of their lives and the people in it as well.
If they cannot control others in any other way, they will turn to playing games and playing the victim.

3. Parasitic people

Sometimes people like this understand what they are doing, and sometimes they do not. You can become a parasitic person when you’re trying to build your self-esteem off others who feel more confident.
Being the victim allows you to feed off the compliments of others which ultimately drains them. You see, when you’re a victim, you will never get enough of praise and support. You could have been a real victim in the past, and now you’re stuck in this mentality.

4. Those afraid of anger

I’ve noticed many people using the victim game because of the inability to properly deal with their anger. In some cases, they are afraid of the consequences of their anger, or maybe they’ve experienced situations where they’ve lost control, and they hate the feeling.
Either way, the victim mentality eventually replaces the ability to have healthy angry feelings and hinders the proper processing of these feelings and emotions.
Remember, it’s okay to feel anger, it’s just not okay to misuse this feeling. It’s even worse to become a perpetual victim.

5. The mentally ill

People who suffer from mental illness will often play the victim. Yes, and I have done this too. Most of the time, it’s due to feeling overwhelmed by the symptoms of the illness.
With bipolar disorder, for example, the victim mentality may come after a severe bout of mania due to the refusal to take medication. Instead of accepting the fault of not taking their medication, they may play the victim to keep from accepting responsibility for the negative actions from their illness.
No, we should never be too hard on the mentally ill, but everyone has to take a certain amount of responsibility at some point, especially when that person understands what to do.

6. Trauma survivors

While it is completely normal to feel victimized after trauma, it’s not normal to hold onto being a victim forever. You must remind yourself, or remind your loved ones, that enduring traumaand healing makes you a survivor and no longer a victim.
This, like the case of mental illness, is a sensitive topic, so tread lightly when trying to help others. Also, be kind to yourself, if this is you, but also keep trying to restructure and rebuild your life.

Dealing with the victim mentality

If you’re the one playing the role of victim, you must look within. What are your inner voices saying to you? Are you telling yourself that life isn’t fair to you? If so, there are probably other statements you’re using to justify your behavior.
You have to stop the negative voices. I know how hard this can be, but you can take one small step at a time. Practice turning those statements around into powerful assertions which help build your self-esteem. You don’t have to play the victim in order to solve a problem. It just seems like the easier way out.
If the one who is stuck in playing these patterns is your loved one or friend, then helping them transform their inner dialogue will help a bit.
You must understand, however, that changing thought patterns and inner statements will have to be done by the one who thinks these things. So, have patience if you’re willing to help.
Stand firm. Let your friends and loved ones know that you will not be taken for granted by victimizing behavior. While it’s okay to help people heal, it’s not okay to destroy yourself in the process.
I hope this has helped you understand what playing the role of victim means and who does this. Now, that you know, you can tackle this situation properly and take back control of your own life. I wish you well in your endeavors to be a better person and help others do the same.
References:
  1. https://www.psychologytoday.com
  2. https://www.lifehack.org

 

 
 
 

 

 
 
 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 
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6 Mysterious Disappearances That Were Never Explained ~ Sofia, Learning Mind




6 Mysterious Disappearances That Were Never Explained.

 


 




There is an intensely eerie quality in cases of mysterious disappearances. The loss of people as a result of violent crime is one thing. But an unexplained absence is on a completely different level.

In mysterious disappearances, it is the silence of the empty space where the person used to be, and the lack of explanation to help us piece the events together that chills us.


Mysterious disappearances defy the logical chain of events in missing persons’ cases. Consequently, they make us feel intrigued yet powerless.

Perhaps this involuntary yet seductive pull is the reason why the public has long found fascination in unexplained mysteries and missing persons cases, or why we love a good mystery story. Why urban legends and the stuff of myth stem from such stories.
Mysterious disappearances have been occurring since the dawn of recorded civilization.

The first case of a person going missing without explanation lies in the case of Romulus, one of the legendary founders of Rome. Through the centuries and until today, a host of famous disappearances have accumulated.

Here are some of them:

Flannan Isle Lighthouse Keepers


The mystery of the lightkeepers has inspired many a song and ballad, the most famous being by the band “Genesis”. The mystery concerns a lighthouse near Eilean Mòr, one of the Flannan Isles in the northernmost Outer Hebrides region of Scotland.

The cluster of islands, under the nickname “the Seven Hunters”, supposedly took its name from Saint Flannan, the seventh-century Irish preacher and abbot.

In 1900, Donal Macarthur, James Ducat and Thomas Marshall vanished from the lighthouse on Flannan Isle. The three keepers were at the end of a 14-day shift but remained in the Isle due to bad weather. After a passing ship noticed that the lighthouse was dark, a search began for them.

Following the disappearance, massive investigation and speculations ensued. The investigators did not have much to go on. The most credible theory is that a freak wave swept the men out to sea during the storm.


The island was completely deserted, and unmade beds and cups still full were in the lighthouse. There were no clues of a struggle or an accident happening. No bodies were ever found.

The three men had vanished in the foam.


Ambrose Bierce



“As to me, I leave here tomorrow for an unknown destination”.

Such were the closing lines of Ambrose Bierce’s last ever letter to his friend, Blanche Partington. The date was December 26, 1913. The following day, one of America’s most widely known and influential writers, journalists and satirists, would leave no trace.

Bierce, under his capacity as a war journalist and correspondent as well as an adventurer, went to follow Sancho Villa’s Army during the unfolding revolution in Mexico. Historians believe that sometime during the fighting he perished, or criminals murdered him.

Nobody ever found any remains of indication of what really happened. And so, one of the founders of ghost literature and horror stories had a fitting end to his unconventional life.


Roanoke Colony

As far as mysterious disappearances go, Roanoke Colony is one of the most extreme. For a person to go missing is strange for sure. But a whole colony? Now that’s something else entirely.

Roanoke received funding by Sir Walter Raleigh and was the first attempt at a permanent colony in North America. Since the very beginning, the mission faced many difficulties; storms, shortage of funds and food, illness, you name it. The harsh conditions forced the majority of the prospective colonists to leave, a small part remaining behind.

By the time the ones who left returned with reinforcements during a second expedition, the entire colony was missing.

There was only a single clue to indicate what happened to them: the word “CROATOAN” carved into a tree.

Nobody knows what happened. Speculation suggests that local tribes either killed or assimilated the colonists. The Croatan are a small Native American group living in the coastal areas of what is now North Carolina.

They may have been a branch of the larger Roanoke people, a tribe with Alonquian roots, or allied with them. The story of Roanoke has inspired certain well-known adaptations, such as a season of the popular TV show “American Horror Story”.


Connie Converse

Elizabeth Eaton Converse had such a poignant life. She was one of the first singer-songwriters, and her work and life remained underground until the 2009 release of her song recordings, titled “How Sad, How Lovely”.


During the 50’s, she moved to New York, writing and singing songs accompanied by her acoustic guitar. They were mostly melancholy or playful tunes, about love, loss and everyday life.

She had a distinctly old-style folk sound. Her music did not yet have elements of electric instruments like the folk music that would come after Bob Dylan and Simon and Garfunkel’s rise to success.

As the years passed, Connie had been drinking and smoking a lot, and become disillusioned by the discrepancy between the life she had dreamt of and the life she had had.

In 1974, Connie Converse sent letters to a few close family members and friends, informing them that she was going to set out and make a fresh start. That was the last anyone heard of her.

How sad and lovely indeed.


Megumi Yokota and the North Korean Abductions

And then there’s North Korea. During the period between 1977 to 1983, North Korea was responsible for at least thirteen mysterious disappearances.

According to official announcements made by North Korea at the time and ex post facto, a number of Japanese persons, most of them teenagers or young adults, were abducted in order to train as Korean Spies.


One of them was a student named Megumi Yokota. North Korean agents reportedly dragged her into a boat and took her straight to North Korea to a facility which taught North Korean spies about South Korean customs and practices.

After also learning Korean, Megumi forcibly married another captive and taught North Korean agents how to pass as Japanese and assimilate into Japanese routine.

In 2002, North Korea admitted having orchestrated the abduction but claimed that Megumi had committed suicide. It returned what it said were her remains. The captive she had had to marry corroborated the story, claiming she had committed suicide after a bout of mental illness ensuing from her captivity.

Megumi’s remains returned to Japan sometime during the 00’s, though controversy as to their authenticity accompanied them.

The North Korean abductions made headlines once, but sadly enough no international legal action ever took place.


Yuba County Five and the American Dyatlov Pass

On the night of February 24, 1978, Gary Mathias, age 25, Bill Sterling, age 29, Jack Huett, age 24, Ted Weiher, age 32, and Jack Madruga, age 30, stopped at a local convenience store in Yuba City, California.

It was just after a basketball game they had attended, and they meant to buy snacks and drinks and go for a ride. That was the last time anyone saw them alive.

The press dubbed their mysterious disappearances “The American Dyatlov Pass”, after a disappearance incident involving Soviet hikers in 1959.

Police discovered the youth’s car in a remote part of Plumas National Forest. There was no sight of them in the surrounding area.

Investigators could not, however, determine why they had abandoned it as they could easily have pushed it out of the snowpack it was in.
A few months later, the bodies started showing up.

All of them, at least, apart from Gary Mathias, who the police never found. The other four bodies lay in a shelter approximately 32 kilometers from where the car had been. They showed signs of exposure, famine and dehydration.

The police still have no idea what happened. Why was the car where they found it? Why did the bodies show signs of exposure, starvation and hypothermia despite the ample provisions left next to them? Even more perplexing is the disappearance of Gary Mathias.
The above were just a fraction of mysterious disappearances will never cease to attract us.

It is in the absence that one finds the most material, and it is the silence of a vanishing that is most deafening.

References:
  1. bbc
  2. britannica
  3. wikipedia

About the Author: Sofia

Sofia has a bachelor degree in law. She is moonlighting as a writer and aspiring to one day gather enough experiences and turn them into ink and paper. The intricacies of the human mind and its peculiar ways have always fascinated her and urged her to explore more, not only humans but humanity as a whole, hopefully leading her to interesting findings. She is a literature, music and movie geek to boot.
 
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